Our Services
Relationship Therapy
Relationship work grounded in care, curiosity, and compassion – held within a trauma-informed, queer and kink-affirming space.
At The bigSmall Therapy, we offer relationship therapy that honours the full spectrum of how people love, relate, and build connections. It is a space where partners of all genders, sexualities, and relationship structures (monogamous, non-monogamous, polyamorous, exploring, or undefined) can explore patterns, navigate conflict, and deepen connection with the support of a trained, affirming therapist.
We understand that relationships can be both beautiful and challenging. Sometimes we find ourselves stuck in cycles of hurt, disconnection, or misunderstanding. Sometimes we’re not even sure how to talk to each other anymore. Relationship therapy offers a safe, collaborative space to slow things down, tune into what each partner is feeling and needing, and build new ways of relating.
We work with:
- Communication difficulties & recurring conflicts
- Deepen intimacy, vulnerability, and emotional safety
- Rebuild trust and repair after ruptures or betrayals
- Navigating transitions (moving in, parenting, separation)
- Differing needs around sex, closeness, autonomy
- Attachment wounds and trauma that impact the relationship
- Non-monogamy and alternative relationship structures
- Understanding boundaries, autonomy, attachment, and consent
- Exploration of kinks or fantasies in your relationship in a non-judgemental environment
Your identities, desires, and ways of loving are not just welcomed, they are respected as essential context. We’re interested not just in “solving problems,” but in helping partners really see each other – gently and honestly.
Reach out to us to begin your mental health journey.
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